What
do partners in business; partners in crime, dating and handwriting analysis have
in common?
Partners in business, crime or dating require
personal compatibility to work
together, and handwriting analysis can clearly show where and if that exists –
or doesn’t exist. They also need to know how to
communicate effectively with each other.
“Radical” you might say. No, not really. Handwriting analysis is
used about 90% of the time in Europe to determine employment suitability (or
compatibility between job applicant and job requirements.)
There are no statistics on the number of couples seeking this for relationship
compatibility, and the FBI are the only ones likely to have the facts on
criminal compatibility! But in Israel there is a one year wait to have
handwriting analyzed for non-business purposes and police around the world use
it.
What
can handwriting show?
Well, for a start, even from
watching someone write in across the table from you
(so upside down), you can tell quite a bit!
However, one article cannot possibly manage to
touch more than the tip of the iceberg. But iceberg is a good place
to start.
Is
your date an iceberg? Will your business or crime partner stay calm in a
crisis? Alternatively, will your date be passionate and expressive? Will your
colleague be impulsive? As you can see, what you want in a date may be very
different from what you want in other kind of partners.
Calm
in a crisis, appearing unemotional and cool, this shows in vertical, or left
slanting writing. Passionate, expressive, potentially impulsive? Look for a
far right hand slant.
Trust is a big issue in any partnership, dating or otherwise. After all, we have
all heard of “honor amongst thieves!”
Look
at the “circle letters,” a, o and the circle part of d and g. Are the circles
clean, with no loops in them? This is honesty. The circles can be open at the
top (talkative) or closed (quiet,) but as long as the circles are clean, honesty
is present.
Now
before you rush out and dissolve your partnership or ditch your date, let me
hastily add that all non-clean circles do not indicate a pathological liar! In
fact, most do not.
If
the circle letters have loops on the left, self deceit is present. This writer,
for any of a variety of reasons, does not see things as most of the world sees
them, and probably does not see himself truly as others do either. He may be
presenting the facts honestly as he sees them, but if these are not “true” for
the rest of us, we are getting false picture.
Circles on the right indicate secretiveness. Again, this does not (necessarily)
mean that the location of the loot from a bank robbery is being concealed! It
could just be some personal information the writer prefers not to share. But on
the other hand, secretiveness is secretiveness.
And
lastly, loops on both sides of a circle letter are deliberate deceit. This
person will lie, but before you cast any stones, look to see how often these
double loops appear. Once on a page is very minimal. After all, who among us
can claim to never tell a lie? For any of these to be significant, it has to
show in frequent occurrences.
Handwriting analysis can be an effective proactive tool. Find out what you’re
getting into BEFORE you take make a commitment.